Ok guys, y'all are always talking about how girls are so complicated and how you don't understand us. Maybe this will help. Here are a few helpful hints from the female world. Take it to heart, then USE IT. Girls, feel free to comment and add more. Thanks to my anonymous girl friends who contributed to this post.
If hanging out is to be done, it will not be suggested by me. You must act like you want to see me.
If I'm giving one-word answers it means one of three things: 1) I'm busy and really don't want to talk right now, 2) I don't know what to say, 3) I'm mad at you. Fix it.
We want to know that you think about us. It takes something as simple as "I miss you" or "You've been on my mind today" or "I can't wait to see you."
Nothing hurts more than being cheated or forgotten. Avoid at all costs.
Don't think you can fix everything. The dryer or car? Yes. My issues? Probably not. I need support, space, and time.
I understand you're busy and so am I, but when you can spend all day procrastinating homework, you can spend a little bit of time with me. You make time for the things you care about. When you don't make time for me, I feel like you don't care about me.
Don't talk much about exes. Yours or mine. The past should stay right where it is-in the past.
If you want to talk to me, text or call. Don't expect me to initiate all the time.
Having long, drawn out conversations over text is OBNOXIOUS.
We have no idea what you're thinking. We are always wondering what you're thinking. Make it easy and tell us if we ask.
Do not say things that you don't mean. Even though you think we want to hear it, later when we find out it wasn't true, we'll never forget it. Tell me the truth.
If you like me, be a man and tell me so.
Don't lie. We WILL find out.
Don't diss our friends or family. Not cool.
Unless you tell us specifically not to tell our best friend, we probably will. We talk about everything to those closest to us. It's how we operate.
Actually listen when we talk. If you keep asking the same questions over and over again, we will get annoyed.
It's ok to act like you like me if we're dating. It won't kill you to hold my hand. I won't protest.
You will make my day if you send me a good morning message.
When I say I don't want to talk about something, I probably mean it. Don't push the issue.
When I do want to talk about it, I'll probably mutter something then say "I don't know..."
When you ask me if I'm ok, and I say "I'm fine," I am not fine. Pretty much anything other than good (accompanied with a smile), great, fabulous, or spectacular means I'm not fine.
My heart melts when I hear you talk about your relationship with God or hear you pray. Definitely do that. Frequently.
Tell me, with words, out loud, that I'm special to you and that you care about me.
You-messed-up Flowers: good. Just-because Flowers: even better.
A hug never hurt anybody.
It's ok for you to ask me questions.
Chivalry is never dead in a girl's mind. Opening doors and holding out chairs gets you bonus points.
Treat me like a lady.
Though I may be a girl, I'm not as fragile as you think.
Don't badger me into doing something I don't want to do.
Even if we "hang out," a real date would be nice.
Don't get mad at me for things that you do all the time.
I'm willing to play sports, watch action movies, and do other things you like to do. Do something I like to do once and a while without me having to pull your leg or guilt you into it.
If I'm trying to do something, don't automatically swoop in and do it for me. I can do things for myself. If I ask for help, that's a different story.
A girl loves to hear that she's beautiful every once in a while.
3 comments:
YES kaitlin yes. can i please help (anonymously) with part two?
Yes! Just send me a message when you think of one and I'll put it down. And I'll let you know when I start writing part two. Maybe another girl night in order? :)
YES! girl nights are my favorite.
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